I have read many articles on tipping and who should be and who shouldn’t. After years of hearing from vendors themselves as well as being one, I can say that when a vendor goes above and beyond to make your day great, you should let them know you appreciate them. The following is shared from SouthernLiving.com.

A Thoughtful Bride’s Wedding Vendor Tipping Guide

Do you have to? No. Should you? Yes, perhaps so.

Tipping your wedding vendors is not mandatory, but is a good sign of a gracious bride and groom. Just like there’s a standard for tipping at hair salons and restaurants, there are benchmarks for giving to the people who helped your dream wedding come true. Tipping your vendors should be your way of saying “Thank you for giving your all to make my day fantastic!”

Types of Wedding Vendor Tips:

Ideally, gratuity should be discussed and allocated as you plan your wedding budget so that it’s not an afterthought or an unexpected expense. Keep in mind that your extra thank you doesn’t have to be a cash gift. A gift certificate to the spa, a swanky restaurant, or to a fine department store is always acceptable. If your budget doesn’t allow for monetary gifts, consider a handwritten note or a positive review online. You can even offer to provide a reference for future clients, a gesture that goes a long way. Your supportive feedback will yield a good return for years to come.

When to Tip Wedding Vendors:

Timing is everything so be realistic. If you know that life will get busy after the honeymoon, then consider giving your gifts on the day of the wedding. Your wedding coordinator/planner would be delighted to handle this for you. If you prefer to wait until after you return from your trip, schedule time in your calendar with a glass of wine and relive all the wonderful moments of your wedding day. A post-wedding note that includes all the wonderful ways a vendor made your Big Day better is always appreciated.

How Much to Tip Wedding Vendors:


Some catering contracts already include gratuity, so make sure you review your contract. If it is not included, it’s customary to give $25-50 per server and banquet captain and $50-$100 per chef.

Photographer and Videographer:

A tip for these professionals is a way of saying thank you for going over and beyond throughout your engagement and on the Big Day. A tip of $100-$150 is generous. Keep in mind that second shooters are paid by the hour or a day rate. You would be incredibly kind to think of them too.

Ceremony and Reception Staff:

You’re not obligated by any means to tip your venue staff, but chances are they met with you a half a dozen times before your big day and did their best to meet all of your needs. A gift of $50-100 would mean the world and is a nice encouragement for someone who doesn’t typically receive gratuities.


Typically, your personal pastor or minister does not charge a fee so thanking them with a an honorarium between $200 and $250 is appreciated.  If your officiant has a ceremony fee then a thank you of $50 – $100 for an excellent job is appropriate .

Hair and Make-up Artists:

Industry standard for hair and make-up artists is 15-20% per stylist whether in the salon or on location. Be prepared to give your tip in an envelope on the day of your wedding. Be sure to remind your bridal party to include gratuity if they are responsible for paying for their hair and makeup.

Band or DJ:

A gift of $50 per musician/DJ or a 10% gratuity is welcomed by some of the hardest working vendors. The set up alone is pretty intense, and there’s nothing more uplifting and motivating than to receive an envelope before the party begins!

Wedding Planner:

This is one of the professionals that has been by your side from the very beginning. The bond you share with your wedding planner is not like any other. Part friend, part family, part advisor, this person has filled multiple roles and has done the very best to make your wedding planning experience memorable. There’s no right or wrong amount to give to your wedding planner or day-of coordinator, although some sources suggest 10% of their total fee. More importantly, give from your heart and no doubt your gift and thoughtfulness will be cherished.


A 15% gratuity or service charge is usually added to the contract. It’s a good idea to take care of the driver’s gratuity before the day of the wedding. With so many moving parts it is easy to forget your driver(s).


Your floral designer is not expecting a tip, but keep in mind the time, talent, and creativity that your decor team invested in your wedding. For those who impress you with their service, a tip of $100, or a thoughtful gift would make the perfect thank you.

Florist and Cake Designer:

Photos are priceless and primarily the way that cake and floral businesses sell their services. Some photographers will send a gallery to enjoy while honeymooning. Sharing images of your flowers with your florist and your wedding cake table with your cake designer blesses them with fresh images to share with their clients.

Delivery Crews:

Whether linens, floral, cakes, or specialty services like cigar rolling, photo-booth, and dessert entertainment, there are always people behind the scenes delivering and installing on behalf of the company. A tip of $10-$20 per delivery person is an unexpected surprise for the people who bring your event to life through their helping hands.